Sunday, January 24, 2010

Better late than NEVER!!!

  I made a promise to my best friend that I would make a new post on Friday but due to stupid people in my life I was occupied with other things.  You see, I just don't understand what the fascination is with spreading rumors about someone. I mean, I go to work, I keep my nose out of everyone else's business, I work hard, and I go home.  I do NOT go down on the floor and ask questions to get some "dirt" on someone so that I can proceed to run my mouth, embellish, or make stuff up about people...I have so many other things...better things to do with my time. So, if I keep my nose out of the lives of others, why on earth does everyone feel like they have to make my life their business or make up stories and spread rumors about me? What did I do to them? Why can't everyone just let me come to work, do my job, and not worry about my personal life or who I am seeing or how much money I have or...well you get the picture?!? And then when these individuals get caught or confronted they push it off on someone else...which gets my goat anyway, but what upset me the most is that these people tried to blame a member of my family for it all and the fact of the matter is, my family has my back at all times and they in no way will be blamed. I love my family and I will believe them over ANYONE and EVERYONE else.  But anyway, back to all the crap on was completely out of the blue and it had me so upset and irritated that I didn't post and for that...J, I am truly sorry, but I am posting now so better late than never, right?!
  On a closing note, I simply ask anyone who reads this to please think twice before you "pass" a story or rumor on to other people about a person. The simple fact is that whether you mean to or not you are hurting them and just think how you have felt when a rumor about you has gotten back to you and it was not true and it was very very hurtful...take it from someone who seems to keep being the topic of rumors even though I don't talk to or assosciate with ANY of the guys I work is not fun and it does NOT feel good at all.


Jamie said...

well, you have made a very good point. It is never a good idea to gossip or back bite. I am actually surprised it is happening with a workplace with so many guys .. .. .I expect from an office full of women, cuz women are jealous, mean and vindictive! Keep your head up & remember I Love YOU!

Anonymous said...

Hey Lady, i am glad that it is over! Now onto the new chapter of life!

Jamie said...


I am just anticipating a new post from you any day now??? I check regularly to see what is going on in your life. So if you post again, I promise I will read it :)

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